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Roll Me Away,
I don’t know if you recall speaking with me back in April about divorce, self nurture, taking a break, seeing counselors, anti D’s and the like. But regardless of whether you remember me, I wanted to drop by here and just thank you. I kind of disappeared for a while and when I returned it was to the Recovery board.
Sometimes we take the time to give thought out responses to people and never know what becomes of our efforts so I just wanted to be sure you knew that you helped me and I am grateful for it.
I did see that counselor for a while and it helped, I’ve worked through much of my anger and lost the idiotic obsession with OM and revenge. My W has even come around and started to really get it and apply herself to the M.
“Each and every person deserves happiness. Go and seek yours. Work though the issues and resolve to live a happier and more fulfilling life. You have to dream it and visualize it first, and in time, it will come to you.”
You told me this and I think of it often and you know what, it is coming to me.
Thanks again
oz
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Joined: Oct 1999
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Oswald, Yes, I do remember posting to you. You sound like you are in such a better frame of mind. My heart is uplifted today to see your upbeat post. Everyone here is in my prayers. Prayers and encouragement are some of the most powerful tools that we have. I find that having a positive attitude tends to just bring more positive things into my life. Sounds like there is a real reconciliation in the works for you and your W. WOW! You gotta love it!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> RMA
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Oswald, I just did a search for your posts in April & came across an incredible thread. I tried to bump it & will try again ....it logged me out <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> It's always good to hear recovery stories and especially from someone who comes back to gove thanks. God Bless, D.
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