couldnt understand how H of almost 18 yrs could just leave his wife & child for another mans wife. X told us he was leaving he was giving us the world just to be with OW. then the change I was told by her now X that it was her behind that, seems X hasnt got to know the real lady yet. Day we sat down in court X came away looking so clean of couse the uniform helped (cop). I had called x a few days after the court begging him to sign the military retirment papers giving me half that Im entitle to under law he said he would think about it. We needed this money just to buy food & pay bills, even told him that I would ask the judge to drop the COBRA insuance that I needed. My son needed food more than I need medical. never heard from him again. thank god the judge changed his mind & give me spousal support a few days later $333 for 9 months. still had no way to pay for our home & god was with me again. It was sold within 2 weeks of asking price. d-papers were signed 2 months later, god blessed me again with MOW being the cause of our breakdown. Dont ever tell me pray doesnt work Ive been there, it takes time. 7-16-02 our appeal was canelled due to my lawyer having a capital murder case, x doesnt want me to have support, & ow name off our papers. While waiting for the court to set another date, kept praying for God just help me make it through this next battle. GOd was there found out that just 5 days after we sat down for D in march X bought a $14,000 car with MOW, got the paperworks for a joint account with GMAC. MOW has bragged about x giving her whatever she wants with her co-workers. guess he is now a sugardaddy to a younger woman. Our D papers were signed in May 02, OW in July 02. NOw I know why this lowlife of a x needed our sons CDs. just a few days later X starts taking our CDs out to pay for her new toys, court papers say I get the 1st CDs coming up for maturity. It all makes sense now X cant keep her unless he puts money out. X is buying this woman to love him, couldnt under stand why he kept saying Im just a balding 42 year old man. always wonder why she would leave a very nice looking man who everyone says is so nice & a good father, MOW never complain about him to others. They were having money problems & x shows up bragging how much he has. How can a man whos wife cant work because she needs 2 operations do this. Where was our next meal coming from while he paid $315 month car note for another mans wife. I have all the paperwork showing he did this I just hope the judge will go after him for lying in our D about his A. If I had to tell anyone just one thing to do when getting a D it would be pray & never give up hope.

m-17 yrs 9 months
c-13, 28, 7 gd
H-42, w-48
D-5-23-02

MOW-29
C-3 under 10
D-needs judge to sign
m-10 yrs