I have removed this post, Thankyou for all of your support and comments. The truth is, I have been so depressed on my remote tour, that things run through your mind that would not normally be there. With good friends and other people that know my wife, I have given her the benefit of the doubt and with much couseling and prayer, I feel that I am on the road to the release of my depression. Without drugs, by the way. My prayers to St. Anthony are being answered little by little each day. If you are wondering, here is the prayer....<BR>O St. Anthony! Saint of Miracles! Saint of Help! I, also have need of thy assistance; I have need of this special favor (Mention your favor) I carry thy image bearing thy illustrious name on it and I call on thee to do justice for me at all times. Therefore, console me in my present necessity and grant me the help that, with full confidence, I hope for. Amen (say your request) Make signe of the cross. Hope this helps others, thanks, I'll give every body a followup.<p>[This message has been edited by US-GI (edited July 14, 2000).]

Oh man, that has got to be a very hard situation to be in. I am so sorry for what you have to deal with. I would get a copy of that picture and show it to her, she can't deny it if the picture is right there in front of her. Make sure you do this before you go away, otherwise it will drive you crazy. Do you have any other reasons to believe that she would be involved with someone else? This situation demands immediate attention and needs to be dealt with before you go away. Also remember there is the possibility that someone may of doctored a picture as well which can be done very easily. So make sure that you get to the bottom of this and find out the truth.I hope everything works out for you and keep posting it does help and there is alot of good advice on here. Post back to let us know what happened.<p>[This message has been edited by fed up (edited July 11, 2000).]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by fed up:<BR><B>Oh man, that has got to be a very hard situation to be in. I am so sorry for what you have to deal with. I would get a copy of that picture and show it to her, she can't deny it if the picture is right there in front of her. Make sure you do this before you go away, otherwise it will drive you crazy. Do you have any other reasons to believe that she would be involved with someone else? This situation demands immediate attention and needs to be dealt with before you go away. Also remember there is the possibility that someone may of doctored a picture as well which can be done very easily. So make sure that you get to the bottom of this and find out the truth.I hope everything works out for you and keep posting it does help and there is alot of good advice on here. Post back to let us know what happened.<P>FED UP<BR>Thank you for your reply. I think that showing her the picture would be more tramatic and could possibly harm my chances to get her to talk to me. Maybe someday. But now I am on the road to recovery, and with her........and the chicdren...<BR>Showing her the picture would only make me feel good, but it would be a kick in the face for her...That came from the "MARS/VENUS" book series. Thank you for your reply..<P>[This message has been edited by fed up (edited July 11, 2000).]</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by fed up:<BR><B>Oh man, that has got to be a very hard situation to be in. I am so sorry for what you have to deal with. I would get a copy of that picture and show it to her, she can't deny it if the picture is right there in front of her. Make sure you do this before you go away, otherwise it will drive you crazy. Do you have any other reasons to believe that she would be involved with someone else? This situation demands immediate attention and needs to be dealt with before you go away. Also remember there is the possibility that someone may of doctored a picture as well which can be done very easily. So make sure that you get to the bottom of this and find out the truth.I hope everything works out for you and keep posting it does help and there is alot of good advice on here. Post back to let us know what happened.<P>FED UP<BR>Thank you for your reply. I think that showing her the picture would be more tramatic and could possibly harm my chances to get her to talk to me. Maybe someday. But now I am on the road to recovery, and with her........and the chicdren...<BR>Showing her the picture would only make me feel good, but it would be a kick in the face for her...That came from the "MARS/VENUS" book series. Thank you for your reply..<BR>Also, I have been on this remote for the last 9 months so I can't really do anything til I get back. One of my concerns her is can I feel enough for her to have sex with her? That I don't know.....<P>[This message has been edited by fed up (edited July 11, 2000).]</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>