I just wanted to say hello to everyone and I am so glad to know I am not the only one feeling lonely & depressed. This place is great to just to lend an ear or get advice. I have been with my husband for 11 years and married 6 of them however being seperated for one then tried to work through things and got back together till now he came home today and said the divorce is being processed. I thought we were working on things but obviously there was a communication problem there. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> The original reason we seperated was due to him cheating. Now its giving up on trying to get through without a lot of trust there??? Okay done babbling now! Nice to meet all of you in advance <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

AK4M,
Welcome to MB! Yes, unfortunately there are a lot of us out here in similar situations...
Sorry to hear about your situation. You will find a lot of support, help and good advice here, so visit often.

Question (and I hope I am not out of line here).
Is your husband currently involved with someone else? By the abruptness of everything you have stated, it sounds as though there are other forces in addition to your "communication" problems that could be contributors here.

If you want to save your M, then it is time for you to get busy. Reading all the material on the MB site is the best way to start.

Good luck to you!

Sweden

I am not too sure. I don't think that he is involved with anyone but at the same time I didn't think the cheating would ever happen???
I want to believe that he isn't. Thanks for the welcome Sweden <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

AK4M,

Sorry you are in this situation. A lot of people, including me, came here not knowing whether their partners were cheating or not, only to discover that they were. The likelihood of your husband doing it again is therefore high...sorry to tell you this, by the way.

Sweden is right, read all you can find at this site, and share your story with us. Many of us have been through what you are dealing with, and you will find many people will be here supporting you.

Love and light,

Jacky

Hi again,
There is a thread somewhere here on the discussion forum that gives some of the signs that your H is having an A. I'm not sure where it is, maybe someone out there knows. It might help you identify some behaviors he is currently having. Once again, excuse me for even bringing up this subject. As I said, I don't know your whole story so it is hard to make any solid evaluations of the situation.

Sweden