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#731685 07/19/02 08:22 PM
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Karma can be so much of a warmth sometimes to my tortured soul -- 2 yrs after my D-Day (7/9/2000), I see how truthful a clean, non-violent life can cleanse one's soul. Before you think I am some bible thumping, uppity [censored], I want to let you all know I AM ANYTHING but that... just a frickin' good person/soul whose H made me out to look like a f__ckin' bad person/soul, ONLY to get walloped by who know's what that good force is...all I know is that by my not reacting or believing what XH tried to stuff down my throat to me and anyone else who would listen, HE and his OW (my X best friend) are experiencing what one would call "El Eggo on The Face-O"... and before I get too uppity about this happening to the ones I once loved and no longer can, I bow out gracefully before I get kicked karmically (new word?) in my [censored].

#731686 07/30/02 09:40 PM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by TwentyNinePalms:
[QB]Karma can be so much of a warmth sometimes to my tortured soul -- 2 yrs after my D-Day (7/9/2000), I see how truthful a clean, non-violent life can cleanse one's soul. ...all I know is that by my not reacting or believing what XH tried to stuff down my throat to me and anyone else who would listen, HE and his OW (my X best friend) are experiencing what one would call "El Eggo on The Face-O"... QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Sounds like my ex... The Chickens Came Home To Roost...

Peace, Harold <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#731687 08/02/02 05:31 AM
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Hi TNP,
I have read your story before, and just to clarify and introduce myself: I AM a "bible thumper" but not an uppity a__ like I was prior to getting pregnant and having a baby by a MM 21 years ago... I'm thankful but probably not as grateful as my family & friends! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> They want to SEE my Christianity, not HEAR about it 24/7... What we do speaks so much louder than what we say anyway...

Soooo... WHAT THE HECK HAPPENED???

We know what goes around comes around, yet isn't it amazing how sometimes we are allowed to actually see it happen to those who have hurt us? Oh well, regardless of what happened, it's good for you that you handled yourself with dignity and grace from the beginning of all this mess. You gave a great gift to yourself by planting those kinds of seeds! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

#731688 08/02/02 07:59 PM
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It is good to see a actual event happen, What Goes Around....! I know that God sees these humans as sinners, and will have to repent sometime. My WH - stbx is not remorseful or guilty about his affair with a married woman of 28 years of marriage (this being her for sure 2nd physical affair). His time will come, I wish he would wisen up before it is too late. You never know when God is going to upheavel your body to him. Then judgment day will come, and boy it would be good to hear from my stbx that the feels remorseful and guilty about his sexual actions with a married woman. But he will have to be the one to suffer the consequences. Just like what he did with going against the judges orders. He opened his own banking account, after the judge ordered no changes. Now he wants to put my name on the account. TOO late, my lawyer has the statement with only his name on the account. Consequences will be dealt with, and he knew he was doing wrong by opening his account.

Yes, we may not be here on earth to see what goes around..., but the truth of the matter is they will get what they deserve in the end.

#731689 08/05/02 07:48 AM
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29,

You are absolutely right...time wounds all heels. BUT for your own Karmic evolution, you need to let go of the anger, dahlin'. Pray for the wicked ones...pray for their happiness and serenity and yours will come to you.

And I don't even own a Bible.

<small>[ August 05, 2002, 07:49 AM: Message edited by: franklymydears ]</small>


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