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Hi!
I posted a message earlier outlining the whole situation (In-Home Separation?). Well, she finally decided to move out (it's my fault because I gave her an ultimatum of either treatment or leave--after three years, I am at the end of my rope). I mentioned to her that there is probably someone in the wings waiting. She told me I was &*^$! crazy and that she does not even want a relationship...she is just miserable with the marriage.
So the pole is this:
Do you think there is someone else? (she has had two affairs before and I heard a conversation with another man that she told him that we were nothing more than roommates).
Also, she wants to act as a "Nanny" while I am at work. Is this a good idea? It would be nice to know the kids are with someone they trust, but I do not trust her.
Thanks!
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Joined: Jul 2000
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Well, just remember it's her choice to leave and not go to counseling..
But, personally I think in-home seperation is harder because your home while they are going out with other people and the pain drags on longer..
Ask GSN/STE, about this he's been doing this for awhile..
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Joined: Jun 1999
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I would say there was some one else too. There are very, very few here whose marriage ended for no reason.
I told my x she couldn't live here and date. She said they weren't dating, but she left anyways.
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