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Cajunky, Do you remember asking me this?

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posted June 01, 2002 12:45 AM
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Free......Just curious. What would it take for you to take your husband back? I am a WS with MA's and I want so bad to not get a divorce but my wife has been hurt to much right now to want to stay with me. You sound like you have found the peace within the lord that is soo good to many people here. When we hurt, God is the one that lifts us up on a daily basis. When I get totally depressed that I have lost my wife I always turn to him for strength just to make it through the moment. I too have given it over to God but it hurts so bad when things don't go like we want them to at a particular moment.(praying for my wife and family back)
I say pray for your husband everyday and maybe God will plant a seed in him to make him want to please you again and then maybe your marriage will be on a positive road again. I know I am praying for my wifes well being and for my marriage everyday, several times a day.

Keep up the spiritual warfare.

Love in Christ

cajunky

Well, things are changing. H has really made some changes that seem sincere. We never even seperated, other than emotionally. I just got on with my life while still here. Mostly like a major plan A. He eventually started seeming like he was doing the same. It's not all perfect, but the negative input has 99.9% ceased. I am surprised at my own feelings as they are beginning to soften towards him. I'm not talking about attitude per say, but I am really starting to feel something again. I have put my plan for DV out of the picture at this point and am going to work on the relationship. You can't do both plans at the same time and be successful at either one. Prayer does work and I believe whatever has brought about his change has a spiritual basis. The difference in myself at thios point is I can be happy either way. He is not responsible for my happiness, although it adds to it. If this change does not last, as has happened in the past, then I am going to fine anyway. I am no longer afraid to let myself be vulnerable in this way. I always said I wanted out but was still open for God to change my heart. I guess He is doing just that.
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Indeed...I just read your post. Man I am sooooo excited for you. It is so encouraging to see what God can do. It is ironic that I got this e-mail today from the rejoice ministries. It is so awesome to see what God can do.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I BELIEVE IN MIRACLES!

I believe in MIRACLES, do you? Oh, I hope so. Your spouse coming
home will be a MIRACLE. When your spouse repents and comes back from
being held captive, you just received a MIRACLE!

What is a miracle? The Bible Reference Dictionary says: An
intervention in the natural universe by God. Then there is a page
and a half of all kinds of miracles that are in the Old and New
Testaments. If you do not believe in miracles now, do a personal
Bible study on "Miracles" for your devotions, next week.

This weekend there were nine miners and their families in Pennsylvania
that received a huge miracle!! People around the United States are
talking about the rescue with many giving our awesome mighty God the
glory and honor. Imagine the workers putting the drill in just the
right place and giving them enough air to be able to breathe! God is
so faithful! He is there with our prodigals, waiting to rescue them!

I love to teach the Word of God, teaching the Power of God, and the
Power of Prayer. I love to get on the telephone and say, "Get paper
and pencil, and let's see what the scriptures say about your certain
situation. Dear people, your Lord God has ALL THE ANSWERS! We just
need to go to Him. Listen to Him. Wait for Him. He will restore
your marriage! Just believe!

As many of you have read our books, we have many stories of what all
happened afterward Bob came home. I want you to know that is not the
only miracle that God has done for us. God birthed and created
Rejoice Ministries. Who are we to tell you about the power of God?
God touched Bob's body when the Doctors said he was dying many years
ago. God touched our preemie twins when they were so little. God
brought home our youngest son, Tom who turned to the world for a
season and now is on fire for the Lord feeling a call on his life.
God touched me physically last year so that I did not need a heart
transplant. I could go on, but I hope you are getting the idea.
What miracles has God done for you already? Write them done and
date them. You never want to forget! Be sure to testify to others
about the miracles that your Lord does for you!

Throughout the Bible are awesome stories of miracles that God, our
Lord Jesus Christ and His disciples did. Believe in His power.
Believe that in His timing He is going to restore, rebuild and
reconcile your marriage to be a lighthouse for others in the future.
Never give up on your God. I did. I was divorced, I gave up on God
and on my husband. BUT, the Lord gave me a second chance when I was
hurting so badly due to the failure of our marriage. He touched me
and said, "Follow me. Do what I say. Wait for my timing, I am going
to bring Bob back home." Everyone thought I was crazy or not
accepting the divorce, but God is faithful in all His promises!
Believe in MIRACLES forever!
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">God is blessing my marriage but I will give you an update later. You are a testimony that prayer works and God answers our prayers on his time.

Love in Christ

cajunky


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