going back to court tomorrow, X wants to take OW name off our D paper for the reason we broke up. X also doesnt want me to have spousal support. feel like Im up against the Devil himself with this one. X doesnt know the truth anymore, lies are starting to cover lies. Our 13 yr old son has told dad 2 weekends now that he would rather be in church than be with him. X gets him on sundays only. to see Dad trying to take spousal support, this is our food money. I cant work because of illness, my operation for carpal tunnel will be the day after court. another operation at the end of Aug. to make sure a lump isnt breast cancer. I ask X a few days ago about buying a car with MOW while still M, he said no. I was sitting with the PI report in my hand. it has their names, account number with GMAC. Both me & my son are praying that dad turns back into the person he once was. before hanging around a different class of people he was a honest man who would have done anything for his family or friends. We dont know this stranger. Its hard to hear your child say to you, Dad is going to hell for what he did to us and the OW family. Son says that OW will never be a part of his family he plans to stop seeing his dad if they are M or live together. the sad thing is I dont think X cares about our son anymore. OW is controling his life now. Please pray that we get through this mess and can go on with our lives. We should know in a few days if we got our new house in Jax. FL. Its 350 miles away, Not seeing X & OW together will help heal our pain.

m-17 yrs 9 months, 12 days
d-5-23-02
h-42 w48
c-13, 28, 7 gd

OW-30
C-3 under 10
D-judge needs to sign

In you r time of need I will pray that the mighty Lord will swoop in and carry your family under His almighty wing until the storms have passed.

Let God lead your path.
Always put God first, and he will surely bless you and your family.
May the Lord be with you.
Blessings to you and your family.
Stay Strong.
Wallace

Dear Together,

What a hard time you are going through. You will be in my prayers. God will get you through this...we all need to put our faith in him.

It is so hard to put up with all the lies and deceit. I can also relate to your feelings your son has for his father and the OW--three out of my 4 kids feel the exact same way. Makes for some interesting encounters.

When they are in the FOG, they really don't see much besides their own selfish desires....and they do and say things that would be unheard of before the affair. Hang in there and know you have people here who will listen and be there for you. Hope everything goes ok in court. Pat