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WIFTT:
My personality is the same (INTP). WW is ESFP. She blames me for the drug abuse, her father for the marriage, me for felling miserable and never meeting her needs...I read the article on BPD and am starting to wonder...
She refuses to see a therapist, is this another sign (that there is nothing wrong with themselves?)
Thanks for the insight!!
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One of the old posters who is a divorce lawyer, once said that most divorces are due to either personality disorders or depression. . .
I highly suspect the former brings alot of us together on this board, for some of us are normal, but were never schooled in understanding mentally disordered people. . . .
And when I saw that my X was following in her parent's footsteps and had always talked a good line, but stuff that was always weird i could never explain, was now explainable with BPD, that the problem was bigger than MB, and that MB wouldn't fix anything except to make it worse. .
it always pays to learn new stuff, and the personality types and personality disorders can explain alot of differences and different behaviors. . .
good luck
wiftty
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