I have a H who clearly states, "I've never been with anyone but you, I have been faithful in every way, I have never shared the special relationship that I have with you, with anyone else." But, the lies, oh the lies, the seemingly never ending lies... How do you go on with the knowledge of lies in the face of faining "I didn't do anything wrong"? It is utterly crazy making behavior.H is adamant but the truth is that there have been so many grey ares that all I see is dark clouds. I have read this site through and through and believe that so much of it could help, but H will not enter into any kind of program, I believe for fear of being "Found out". What now... Live in constant torment, not knowing truth from falicy? I think not... I value myself more than that! I need to know how and which way to turn, any help please send it my way... I've been lurking for a long time now and see so much positive coming out of this forum, thanks in advance!