Have been seperated for over a year, divorce in the works for over 6 months, STBX's EA about 3 years old.

STBX moved OW in with him about 1st of July had to move her out, AF found out and he was TOLD no adultery! Is paying for a month to month rental for her.

Haven't seen or heard anything on divorce sense July 22.

STBX told OD that he wasn't sure that he wanted to marry OW wanted to make sure first.

The first is here, I haven't seen papers. He has to pay another months rent for OW.

Finally the question..........Has he figured out that it's cheaper to stay married to me and pay for OW's apartment?

OR

Is he staying married because it's a good excuse not to have to marry her right away?

He is the one that has pushed so hard for this divorce, but really hasn't done much to reach that goal. Is the Lord interfering here on my behalf knowing that I really don't want a divorce and am willing to try on the marriage at this point?

I am confused and would like some help discephering some of this foggese any thoughts?

Thanks,
Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Wish I had answers for you but I don't.

sing,
Nobody seems to have answers for me. I emailed STBX this morning as I nee $$$ with school starting, taking time off for surgery and the speeding ticket I got going to his house. Nothing, notta, not reply. Trying to decide if I should call the apartment complex where she lives to see if they rented for another month, don't feel that I really need to though.

If there was a book that said when he acts this way it means..... and with this behavior it means............ Wouldn't that be a great book!!!!
Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />