Got home from a weekend at my parents today and got Saturday's mail......two letters, one telling me I'm on jury duty the next 3 months, the other from my lawyer telling me my divorce court date will be set for sometime in the next 4 months. Panic attack! I wasn't expecting to go to court, thought the lawyers would work everything out, so I don't know what to think.....guess I'll have to call tomorrow and find out what is going on. I am afraid he's fighting for custody; and while I know that based on statistics I'll win; I also know it will be long, messy, and expensive and emotionally difficult. Anyone have suggestions on avoiding court?