Crap...I don't know if I just screwed up...

STBX came in this morning to watch kids. She looked like crap. I asked her what was wrong and shee said she slept in her car last night. Her friend from methadone clinic is having severe marital problems and were having a huge fight so WS couldn't stay there.

I asked her why she didn't sleep at her boyfriend's (I confess I did have a hint of sarcasm in my voice). She said she didn't want to do that.

Then I started to feel like crap. I told her she could stay at the house if: she started personal therapy/counseling (not marriage counseling) and did not go out at all with anyone. She said thanks (but she didn't say yes). Would this affect the separation aggreement?

Is she playing me to get a free place to crash or has she hit bottom? I'm still on her to get a job too (she puts in applications but that is all so far...)

Things that make you go hmmm...

Thanks!

Pete