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This morning my husband woke me up at 8:15 A.M. when he said last night that I could sleep until 8:30 A.M. as I was up sporadically during the night with the baby while he had a good night sleep. He had to go to his mother's office and said he was late. He didn't even feed the baby who was screaming to be fed.
If I didn't feed the baby when he needed to be fed, I would have been yelled out and called an unfit mother. He has nerve. Tomorrow I have to go to work at 8:30 A.M. and I get to have a good night sleep tonight. Would it be vindictive to do the same thing by waking him up early and letting him feed the baby?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by babytoluv:
<strong>Would it be vindictive to do the same thing by waking him up early and letting him feed the baby?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Short answer: Yes.
But... you could ask him tonight to do that in the morning. If he agrees (POJA), then go with it.
-AD
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Yes, it would be vindictive. But you are human, so you can think about these things, but only briefly. Then rise above it and do the right thing, someone has to be the adult.
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