To AdamS:

Adam, I am a Catholic, but I, too, certainly hope that MB is not only a Christian forum or is not becoming only a Christian forum. What about Jews, Muslims, Hindi, and all others who are not of one Christian denomination or another?

I am grateful in the extreme for my Christian brothers and sisters coming to my aid, but I also had atheist brothers and sisters come to help me, too. I had people of all faiths and people of no particualr faith reach out to me, and for that I am grateful.

We must not exclude anyone, nor make anyone feel as if this is a Christian club, IMHO. I could have as easily been born some other faith.

Hope you are doing well,
c++

C++ Thank you for the reply. We are all going through some very intense issues that we never expected to ever be in. Sometimes in our search for answers we develop a group mentality, it’s immature and truly doesn’t help. It almost seemed to me that more Christians were having problems with marriages then any other group. Not so. I do agree that we all look to our maker for that extra bit of resolve and strength to help us get past this and move on. I am fighting for custody of my children and dealing with a very bad marriage after 15 years. Probably the nastiest “D” in history. If it were a soup everything would be in it. So far with the help of my family, children and belief in a higher authority I am coming out the winner in this horror story. Yet I know there are no true winners ever. The way we come out ahead is to simply pick up the pieces and put our life back together again. I am and my children will be happy again. There is more to this story but it is long and I have no energy to tell it. All I can tell you is that everything and I mean “Everything” comes to pass, your situat6ion will to. Be patient it took a few years to get into it give your self a few years to recover and rebuild.

C+++ How are you doing... Feeling better?