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COURT DATE IS THE 9TH PLEASE HELP I DON'T WANT DIVORCE
#736415 10/05/02 11:50 AM
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I have posted here a few times ...is there anything that will work to let my wife see that we sould talk about this...we have been seperated for 12 weeks what to do ?
she said the 12 week I have been gone I have not acted like a man with all the beggin and pledding that I have done I thought that was the right thing to do at the time because,well I scared I don't know what is up or down(if you know what I mean) .. How do I show her I'm a man in this kind of thing .. I love her very much but she seems like she does not care ....this hurts ...what can I do to get her to want me ..

she is living at her moms and I am at my moms ..should I go get a apartment maybe she will see that and start thinking

PLEASE HELP I'M LOST AND DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE
Re: COURT DATE IS THE 9TH PLEASE HELP I DON'T WANT DIVORCE
#736416 10/05/02 05:17 PM
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Lumpy,

It is really kind of slow here on D/D over the weekend. You might try GQII, more people there.

You should read up on plan A and go read the post over on on GQII from Bramblerose, on doormats. Good thread.

When you are reading about plan A, do you see whining and pleading? Don't think so. Do you like to be whined at or nagged to do something probably not!!! Go read, you will find the answers on how it you need to be behaving.

Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Re: COURT DATE IS THE 9TH PLEASE HELP I DON'T WANT DIVORCE
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Lumpy,

When you were dating your wife you didn't whin or cry to her , did you? This is not how to attract someone. Believe me I made the same mistake plus many more. That was over two years ago and we are still not divorced. We are not reconciled yet. There is no one elso in our lives either. we have a good relationship now. The following site really gave me a lot of hope. Please go there and read testimonies.www.restorem.org

I will pray for you.
gentle

<small>[ October 06, 2002, 09:33 PM: Message edited by: gentle ]</small>

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