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I just found out that my H was served with the contested divorce papaers plus a restraing order on me and my kids. I wish that this had gone differently he backed me into a corner and the OW threatened me with my kids. Is there still any hope you think that we can still reconcile? What are the chances? I know now that he will be faced to reconize what he has done. Any suggestions anyone? My story was posted yesterday under help he will be served soon -Thanks. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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Sounds like my story but a few changes. I only have one son. But was thrown out of house last year two weeks before Christmas with my son. He after the first of the year, re filed D papers on me (I had dropped them first time) and I countered on three different grounds.
Did my ever filing or my contesting his D with the truth ever matter? NO HE IS IN THE FOG. EVEN THOUGH OW MS. MONKEYHO dumped him two and a half months ago, it still doesn't matter.
You need to protect your children now. For the life of me, I could expect that kind of meanspirited behavior from an OW who was not a mom and did not ever experience what motherhood was...Unless your wH is telling her awful lies about you that she would say something so bad like...Your kids are next?
Protect your kids. My stbx actually called an emergency temporary hearing b/c he wanted to get primary custody of my son. WHY? SO THE D WOULD GO HIS WAY. SO HE COULD HAVE MS. MONKEY AND MY SON. But monkey left. AND THE DAY BEFORE THE HEARING, THEY WANTED TO DEAL W/MY ATTORNEY AND I ENDED UP GETTING ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT AND PRIMARY PHYSICAL AND THAT IS THAT. JOINT LEGAL BUT I MAY CHANGE THIS. PLUS HE WAS ORDERED TO PAY ONE THIRD OF MY LAWYER EXPENSES...And when the D is final, he will probably have to pay all of it back to me.
The fog not only makes them stupid, but makes them mean as well. Sucks out their souls and turns them into anything but the people we've loved. Yours is a typical fog story. Sudden unusual behavior. Anger/lashing out. Blame. And then a complete change of personality. It is as though a demon is within.
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