My husband recently had an internet affair with me, who he believed was someone else. He was considering meeting her and I confronted him with all the information inwhich he trashed me and my looks. That ended and he promised he wouldnt lie again etc. Well because of that I have been (wrongfully snooping) into his work email. He seems to have a real like "girlfreind" who just sent him a pen, pictures, smiley faces etc. Okay a friendly office worker, today he gets a "you bring a sparkle to my day" is this still a co worker? Heres the question, if I confront him he will know I was evesdropping and change his password and probably continue the relationship. If I continue to snoop I hate him when he walks through the door at night. He admits to me that it is instinctiv for him to lie. But then swears he would never cheat on me? Help anybody?

Gosh. . .you've got three separate posts going on the same thing.<P>You and your husband need to talk. . . I think I had better just hope good things for you. I don't know what to tell you.