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From "The Kingdom Of Caerlon" I'm known as "The Flutist" or "The Pied Piper" because I sometimes post song lyrics. This is a song that has always touched my heart - and yes, I've lived thru the pain of Divorce - what matter if who was right or wrong, it takes 2 to tango, be it for good or evil... So, really really think it over - A Marriage is worth fighting for!
"Divorce SUX" - DJTB, 1998
From Cinderella, 1988 - "Don't Know What You Got 'Till It's Gone"

DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU GOT (TILL IT'S GONE)


I can't tell ya baby what went wrong
I can't make you feel what you felt
So long ago, I'll let it show
I can't give you back what's been hurt
Heartaches come and go and all that's left are the words I can't let go
If we take some time to think it over baby
Take some time let me know
If you really wanna go


Don't know what you got till it's gone
Don't know what it is I did so wrong
Now I know what I got
It's just this song
And it ain't easy to get back
Takes so long

I can't feel the things that cause you pain
I can't clear my heart of your love
It falls like rain, ain't the same
I hear you calling far away
Tearing through my soul I just can't
Take another day, Who's to blame
If we take some time to think it over baby
Take some time let me know
If you really wanna go

Don't know what you got till it's gone
Don't know what it is I did so wrong
Now I know what I got
It's just this song
And it ain't easy to get back
Takes so long

Do you wanna see me beggin' baby
Can't you give me just one more day
Can't you see my heart's been draggin' lately
I've been lookin' for the words to say

Don't know what you got till it's gone
Don't know what it is I did so wrong
Now I know what I got
It's just this song
And it ain't easy to get back
Takes so long...

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good one. They will wake up one day dazed, but out of the fog and will feel like they can't breathe. It will dawn that they lost it all. And that it may never be able to come back again...

I prefer the remix of "in tha end" by linkin park. It is my whole story basically. Except no mention of BLATANT ADULTERY. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Hi NPIGA! Yes, I saw you had posted that song on another Thread, so I went online and downloaded it, also the video - beautiful song. Thank you for posting.
I always felt like this song by Cinderella, as well as that one by PetShop Boys "You Were Always On My Mind" were the ANTHEMS of my (former) married life.
I do thank the Lord that He allowed Love to find me again - after what happened in my life up till October '99. Often, I look back (especially this time of year when it's dreary, cloudy and rainy outside, and the chill of Winter creeps in - and I think of the hurts that I've endured around this time of year, and sometimes, I think I never will heal, although it only lasts a few days then it's gone again. The sun comes out, the South wind chases the clouds away and all's well again. Yes, I also have Seasonal Affectional Disorder to add to the other illnesses I have. Winter is NOT one of my favourite seasons! Spring and Summer are much more to my liking, and early Fall is good, but after that, yeeeech!
You, however, have also gone thru so much! I wouldn't know how to begin to answer your latest Post about your STBX s%$#wing you over legally, although I read it and I believe, as do the other respondents to stay your course and seek relief in court with your Divorce Attorney.
As I wrote in that earlier post, DIVORCE SUX!!!
What else is there to say?
Harold

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Hey Gang,

Harold, I'm not real thrilled with the title of this thread, seems as thou with some of your posts that you are still a little bitter. Anyway I just wanted to add this tune from Ratt that I found [pardon the pun] intrumental to my recovery two years ago.

Givin' Yourself Away.

You say you don't want me
You say you don't care
You say that your heart ain't got no room for me there
You say you don't need me
But I know that it's just a lie
'Cause you call me in the night
Tellin' me your life is better off without me
How come you're sleepin' all alone
Tellin' me you don't ever think about me...

*Hey....you're givin' yourself away
It's there in every move you make
You can't hide your heartache away
Hey....it's something you don't have to say
It's written in the tears on your face
I see through the part that you play
You're givin' yourself away
You're givin' yourself away
It doesn't matter what you say
You're givin' yourself away
You're givin' yourself away....

So you got all your freedom
And you got all your time
So you got the illusion that you're doin' fine
So you smile in the mirror
Through the sadness your smile can't disguise
Why don't you come right out and say
Baby you can't take another day without me
You know I'm runnin' through your blood
You need me like a drug
And you can't live without me....
*CHORUS

And when you call me in the night
Tellin' me your life is better off without me
I know that you're lyin' there alone
Baby cause I know, you can't live without me
*CHORUS

If it ain't metal, it's crap... GO Dee Snyder!!!

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Me again!!!

Did ya miss me? I found the lyrics for "our song" [Me and G] This will deff be played at the reception.

When I Look into Your Eyes... Firehouse

I see forever when I look in your eyes
and all I ever wanted
I always want you to be mine,
let's make a promise 'till the end of time,
we'll always be together
and our love will never die,

so here we are face to face and heart to heart
and I want you to know we will never be apart,
now I believe that wishes can come true
'cause I see my whole world I see only you

when I look into your eyes
I can see how much I love you and it makes me realize
when I look into your eyes
I see all the dreams come true when I look into your eyes

I've looked for you all of my life,
now that I found you we will never say good-bye
can't stop this feeling and there's nothing I can do
'cause I see everything when I look at you

when I look into your eyes
I can see how much I love you and it makes me realize
when I look into your eyes
I see all the dreams come true when I look into your eyes
when I look into your eyes

I can see how much I love you and it makes me realize
when I look into your eyes
we will always be together and our love will never die
when I look into your eyes
I see all the dreams come true when I look into your eyes
when I look into your eyes...

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by MEDIC238:
<strong>Hey Gang,

Harold, I'm not real thrilled with the title of this thread, seems as thou with some of your posts that you are still a little bitter. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hello hello all. No, I respectfully disagree, I have moved beyond my Divorce - shouldn't I have, it was back in '98! It hurts me to see the pain and misery on these Boards of Wandering Spouses, and there are many whose names I could call, but I won't - you know who you are. Visit the Kingdom Of Caerlon for my Postings, I prefer to stay on that Thread. The only pain I have from my Divorce is the fact my ex-wife turned both our kids against me and that hurt. Other than that pain, I pray for all of them: my ex wife and her new husband, and both my kids that the Lord will bless them, keep them safe, bless them financially, and heal their hurt and pain. I pray this sincerely and really meaning it - the Lord knows my Heart and He knows I mean what I pray to Him... I do not miss my ex wife, although I do miss my kids. And I can truthfully say that I do have it a lot better than so many on these Boards - and I also pray for many of you as you go thru this major crisis in your lives.
May the Good Lord continue to bless and watch over everyone on MB - and heal the hurts and pain.
Love, Peace, Light and Joy to all who enter!
Harold


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