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#738879 11/08/02 01:30 AM
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Haven't posted here in ages. My question:
I am seeing XH for the first time in almost two years (divorced 12/00 - he married OW 1/01). We are attending our 13 year old daughter's Parent Teacher conference together tonight. I live in Idaho, he lives in Colorado and this is the first school event he has attended since my daughter and I moved here in 2/01. How should I act? We will be spending an hour together. My thought is to act friendly - no animosity or hurt feelings. What do you think?

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#738880 11/08/02 01:47 AM
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> If I were in your shoes, I would act like I had it ALL GOING ON! AN independant woman whose moved on with her life & is happy & looks great. I'd show him what hes lost! Be kind & all & avoid discussing the past (though you may be dying on the inside, dont let it show!). Hopefully, for your daughter's sake he'll make it a pleasant occasion and have the good sense to leave the new Wifeie (#@$*) at home!!
Hang in there!


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