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lately i have been feeling that the marriage i am going to enter might not work out. I was wondering if i feel like it is going to not work, if those feeling will manifest? can help me
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by seeingstars: [QB]lately i have been feeling that the marriage i am going to enter might not work out.
Hi SS...
Oh wow. Could be....Hummmm.
How soon are you to be married? Id suggest you read His Needs Her Needs...and see if the info there fits you and the futures dream.
Gosh dont get married unless you are really really sure...which I suspect you are not otherwise you wouldnt be here...
None the less...you have found the perfect place to test and learn if you are doing the right thing or not. You are very lucky to be here before marriage rather than the other way around as most of us are.
Read all the info on the web site ...order some books....get your future wife to look at this stuff too.
It might just be premarriage jitters...but I think yo have a serious concern and I think its very wise to be here to check on that concern.
Its easy to get married......so very hard to end a marriage....So read up...keep posting questions ....and do all this with both eyes wide open....
Best of luck to you...and maybe yours...
Randy
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I can't tell you about your future marriage, but for me I had those feelings and in hind site wished that I had heeded those feelings. The same problems that we had then, we are having 27 years later.
Most everyone experiences some uneasiness and questions their decision to marry, but there is a difference between normal jitters and something more serious. I suspect that if you are asking on this board, that you should persue finding out now before you get married.
Could you post more about what you are feeling? What is the trigger or the specifics of what you feel uneasy about? We will be able to help you answer your question better if we know more about your situation.
God Bless,
D.
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