I'm in a new 'home' and on a different computer now, so I decided on a new name.

Anyway, I moved completely out three days ago. Wife is still at home with her kids (my step-kids for 10 years).

She is ALREADY struggling financially. I hate it. Here I am doing fine, and she's working herself to death trying to make ends meet. She says she'll "work three full time jobs if she has to, to make ends meet, but we're STILL getting a divorce." She not being a ***** mind you, just stating her reasoning. She always a sweet human being. ALWAYS.

So, now we're separated. Never EVER though it would get this far. Now I'm in a VERY nice house, paying 1/2 the ammount of rent that I used to. Got all of these great new gizmos and toys that come along with my new "home".

I'd trade it ALL and anything else to be wanted back by my wife.

I continue to remind her that if she really needs anything, just let me know. However, my friends and family, even HER family (!!!) reccomend that I let her do everything all on her own. And perhaps she'll come around, realizing a possible mistake on wanting a divorce. It's so hard!!! I just want to take care of my 'Angel'.

I'm going to let her file. I just can't do it.

-Wishin'- formally DanR

Wishin-

I'm sorry to hear that you're separated and not feeling good about your prospects. It sounds like you're familiar with this site so you know good things can happen, just take the time to improve yourself and hope for the best.