Dr. Phil's program on Friday was about WS's who married the OM! What a sad state <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

One couple had been married nine years, they were both WS's. The OW had left her husband but the WH was waivering about leaving his Wife. So the OM decided to call the Wife and tell her about the A. The WH then left his Wife and even thogh the WS's are together, they don't trust each other! Imagine that!

He's afraid to tell her anything because he doesn't feel he can trust her with his secrets and she's complaining that he doesn't tell her his intimate thoughts! DUH!

Dr. Phil told her that she had robbed the WH of his choice because she was selfish and wanted what she wanted at any cost! Typical! And she had the nerve to have tears in her eyes! While watching the program, it appeared that if the OW had not made the call, the WH would still be with his wife.

I laughed myself silly <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

So, all of us BS's out here, chins up, appearances are deceiving. The happy faces on our WS's are really frowns <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> They have to pretend otherwise. everything they did would be in vain! 'Pride goeth before a fall'

Have a Great and Wonderful Weekend,
relady

wanted to see that show, but it came on when I had to pick son up at school. X has already ask OW about other men hanging around her. So much for trust. OW cheated on her H why should a ring on her finger stop her now. OW 3 small boys told dad that they think X is mean because he yells at them. On the outside they look like the loving family. OW told her X sister that there is nothing between my X, they are just friends. She will go back to her X when she has used my X up. OW needs X credit history, she has bad credit & wants a new home. He will have nothing left, no family, no money, only child says he hates him. All for a piece of A.

m-17yrs, 9 mts, 12 days
x-43 me-48
C-13, 29, 8 grd
d-5-02

ow-32
c-3 under 10
d-7-02
m-10yrssugardaddy. right now she needs his credit history to buy her a new home.

This was stated before, the Wayward spouses lied, cheated, betrayed, spent money, & they met someone who did the same. So the effects are 2 liars, 2 cheaters, 2 betrayers, 2 money doesn't matter - spend as you please, deserve each other. They both are adulterers, and liars. Let them have each other and see where it gets them. A life of deceit, a life of lies, a life of insincerity. Not for me, I know better.

Didn't see Dr. Phil, I had physical therapy, and forgot to put in on record. But am going on the computer to look at what was said. Any other good advice to tell us, us BS's who are holding the fort, and staying here for our kids, and ourselves.