All too often we (WS's) have made excuses for our behavior. We never were held accountable! We refused to believe we were not GOD! Until the bottom falls out from under us we will continue in our sordid ways.

I have wrestled with the notion of seeking forgiveness from my W (to no avail). However, I'd rather let go of the past and continue pursuit of what lies ahead! For WE are ALL righteous in God through our LOrd and Savior, Jesus Christ!! And should that forgiveness come forth then that will be just one more area of my life that has been "exonerated"-Don't misunderstand me, I claim not to be higher than all the rest especially my wife, but I revert to the righteousness that I am, in Christ! I love my wife with my whole heart and yet know the damage I have caused is near irrepairable (sp?) and only pray for her happiness and continued JOY in life! I beseech all WS's to conssider this path of Renewing their mind in Christ so that the chains that bind them can be cut loose!

Can a WS be delivered w/o expressed forgiveness from their spouse? YES!

Carpe Diem!
God's Blessings To ALL!