It has been 1 week since H left and said he is done with our marriage. He still has not talked to me about it other that he is tired of me yelling at him.

Here is my question. I want him to come back, but I don't know if I can forgive him for what he is doing to our family. He won't talk to me and he keeps telling the kids he wants to come home. My kids are in shambles right now. My 4 year old is very angry and gets very mad at every situation and starts to hyperventalate. He doesn't want me to leave him at pre-school anymore and my daughter cries all night. I have reasured my kids that I am not going anywhere and I was sorry for what has happened. I just let them know I am always here for them. I don't want my kids to have an abandonment issues and I can see only in one week it has taken a toll on them. I don't want to give them false hope.

Am I just suppose to let him back in when he wants or when he is good and ready?

My hurt is starting to turn to anger.

CJ

camjon,

When/if my HW ever wanted to come back, I would have him talk to one of the Harley's first as they would be a better and impartial judge of my WH's intentions and could help me formulate a recovery plan.

My kids too have been affected. YS won't spend the night at friends any more when he had no problems before WH left.

God Bless,

D.

PS: about forgiveness, I will leave that to God to show me what to do and think cuz on my own, I just couldn't imagine it.

D.