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#73996 10/27/00 09:33 AM
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<BR>i have been married for a month an a half now and have been reading my h email about having feelings for another woman. he told me it was just email but i have read his email before where he tells woman he single and then goes and meets them. well the other day i found more email not only does he email her but he calls her when hes at work. im ready to ended it already.anybody have any suggestions.

#73997 10/27/00 07:31 PM
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I'm really sorry to hear what's going on in your relationship. You're right to be feeling that this is really not good. <P>Maybe now's the time to sit down and have a real heart to heart with your husband about what he's doing. There has to be complete honesty. <P>I hope you don't have children yet, because that can only complicate the issue. <P>Your husband has to 'fess up and understand that he cannot have you and continue pursuing other women. <P>Other's can offer you more. Read this web site and Dr. Harley's books. Some meetings with your pastor or a marriage counselor (who's "pro marriage") may be your next hope of putting things on track. <P>It's pretty early in marriage to be having such serious troubles relating to other people. How long have you been together? Did he cheat on you when you were dating?<P>I hope there's something to salvage here [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<p>[This message has been edited by Lisanne (edited October 27, 2000).]

#73998 10/27/00 09:49 PM
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kayla--<P>Did you two meet via the internet? Just wondering.<P>Read as much as you can at this website. Very helpful information here.<P>Then decide what you want. To fight for your marriage? I hate to tell you this, but your H appears to be getting some emotional needs met elsewhere. You will want to try to supply those needs yourself! It CAN be done. Talk, talk, talk. Calmly. <P>Tell us more. We'll try to help.<P>Laura


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