<BR>i have been married for a month an a half now and have been reading my h email about having feelings for another woman. he told me it was just email but i have read his email before where he tells woman he single and then goes and meets them. well the other day i found more email not only does he email her but he calls her when hes at work. im ready to ended it already.anybody have any suggestions.

I'm really sorry to hear what's going on in your relationship. You're right to be feeling that this is really not good. <P>Maybe now's the time to sit down and have a real heart to heart with your husband about what he's doing. There has to be complete honesty. <P>I hope you don't have children yet, because that can only complicate the issue. <P>Your husband has to 'fess up and understand that he cannot have you and continue pursuing other women. <P>Other's can offer you more. Read this web site and Dr. Harley's books. Some meetings with your pastor or a marriage counselor (who's "pro marriage") may be your next hope of putting things on track. <P>It's pretty early in marriage to be having such serious troubles relating to other people. How long have you been together? Did he cheat on you when you were dating?<P>I hope there's something to salvage here <p>[This message has been edited by Lisanne (edited October 27, 2000).]

kayla--<P>Did you two meet via the internet? Just wondering.<P>Read as much as you can at this website. Very helpful information here.<P>Then decide what you want. To fight for your marriage? I hate to tell you this, but your H appears to be getting some emotional needs met elsewhere. You will want to try to supply those needs yourself! It CAN be done. Talk, talk, talk. Calmly. <P>Tell us more. We'll try to help.<P>Laura