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I met with my attorney today and gave the green light to go ahead and start the process for divorce. I acctually feel better than I thought I would. I finally feel I have some controll over my life and that I will be much better off with out H. I will be able to live happily again with my children and not have to worry about what, who, if, when and how....
It seems so quick but I know I have made the right decision and I can live with myself because I have done everything in my power to try to get H to understand he doesn't have to leave....but he will not discuss any details why he is leaving or let me know what he is feeling. I am not going to sit here and let him distroy what is left of me.... I need to be healthy and strong for my children and myself and I cannot when he is just stringing me and the kids along.......
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(((((((((Fooltoolong)))))))))
There will be some obstacles and tough times ahead but you seem to have a good mindset for it.
Best of luck to you.
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That's it~ Keep up the strong positive attitude, and don't let the details get you down.
Work on being a better you.... taking walks on the treadmill with upbeat songs on the walkman makes me feel a lot better.
You'll survive and be better on the other side of the nightmare.
Hugs.
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