Peace and Truce Nduli2!

I over stepped my bounds. I was simply pointing to the value of forgiveness, something most everyone struggles with, it is hear that we can exercise our demons!

Apologies for offending you and others!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Nduli2:
<strong>As a person of another faith I am highly offended by you telling me and by proxy others of non-Christian faiths we are not welcome to post.

I did not add to discord just pointing out that posters of other faiths are allowed here and that this board is not Christian. That's okay, I'll let a mod handle it, you're in no posistion to play policeman to anyone.

Peace to you, Cajunky and to the above poster, get over yourself.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">If you were to reread my post, you will find, I did not say you were not welcome here...I simply stated IF you are here to cause trouble, take it elsewhere. "Get over myself?" What exactly is your faith? Do they teach you to treat people with disrespect, when you are the one who misinterpretted what was written here?
I am a marriage and family counselor, my dear friend, and I am here to help not hinder. So please, again, IF you are here to stir up trouble, take it elsewhere.

Thank you,
In HIM always,
ICTL

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by IChooseToLove:
<strong>IF you are here to cause trouble, take it elsewhere. What exactly is your faith? Do they teach you to treat people with disrespect, when you are the one who misinterpretted what was written here?</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"></strong>

That sounds like a judgement to me, bub. What does your religion teach about that. Oh yeah, I remember...Judge not, lest ye be judged.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><strong>I am a marriage and family counselor, my dear friend, and I am here to help not hinder. So please, again, IF you are here to stir up trouble, take it elsewhere.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"></strong>

Well, you must be very good at that. At a grand total of 5 posts, you have managed to drive off a long time member. Good work !!!

Hopefully you don't honestly make your living with these people skills.

Thank you,
In HER as often as possible,
Slapnuts

<small>[ December 13, 2002, 04:23 AM: Message edited by: Slapnuts ]</small>

...back to the subject at hand...

Cajunky, I agree with you that when our dreams seem so impossible in the natural, it's a good thing, actually. Because then, when they come true, we KNOW it was God. He gets all the credit.

If you want your family back and you are willing to stand for however long it takes, then I say GO FOR IT!

How are you protecting yourself these days? And, if you give in to temptation, how do you recover and move forward? Do you have practical steps to take? (Forgive me for not researching all your posts if you have discussed this before...)

I'm just curious... How are you showing yourself (trustworthy) to your ex-wife? I mean, does she give you opportunities to be around her together with your kids? Has she seemed to have moved on with her life or does she give signals of missing you as well?

I will be thanking God for finishing what He authored in your life! Keep the faith!

<small>[ December 13, 2002, 06:44 AM: Message edited by: BINthereDUNthat ]</small>

Slapnuts, IF you or anyone else here, considers what I said to be judgemental...my apologies are extended...I mean no harm, in any way...just attempting to defend Cajunky's right to say what he feels WITHOUT being judged. Again, if I offended anyone, I'm sorry.

My profession, is a ministry, God uses to help others. I am only here to serve...no condemnation was meant by my statements. I was simply asking that there NOT be any judging.

BTW Slapnuts...I'm happy to see you're still around. How is your marriage? Wife? Does she still post here too? I hope all is well.

God be with you.

Serving HIM by serving you,
ICTL

<small>[ December 13, 2002, 09:48 AM: Message edited by: IChooseToLove ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Attributed to IChooseToLove above:
If you are not Christian, so be it, however, there are more Christians than not, who visit this site every day... </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Huh? How do you know that??? DataPoint Sampling? Did you take a poll?

I don't mind spiritual input, but I appreciate practical, SECULAR advice as well.

<small>[ December 13, 2002, 10:54 AM: Message edited by: nuffin ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Originally posted by IChooseToLove:

I am a marriage and family counselor, my dear friend, and I am here to help not hinder.. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I do hope you're not my M&FC... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Seriously.

<small>[ December 13, 2002, 11:35 AM: Message edited by: nuffin ]</small>

Hi Cajunky, I definitely feel the same way you do sometimes during this, but very slooooowly I am starting to realize that it may never happen & I need to accept that. I was the BS & the WW has moved her lover into our new house, so I really do understand what you're going through.

Stay tough in your heart & mind & may you find the peace that I am also searching for.

I am going to close this thread because it is offensive to many people, for many reasons. I am going to say this in the nicest way possible; This site is open to ALL persons and does NOT espouse any particular religious principal or deity, nor is there any alleged majority with greater privilege.

I sincerely hope this clarifies the many issues raised by the members who expressed concern.

Regards,

Magnolia