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We can go up to 2 weeks with my spouse not allowing one single touch. I asked my spouse if the problem was me or if it was anything I could do to make our love making better. My spouse states "I'm just not into it now and I just don't want to half do it. I want to give you a 100% when we do come together." Now I can understand that point. But what I don't understand is does it take a day, week, month, year to give your spouse 100% everyday. I thought that is what you were supposed to do not only with sex but everything. So I am at my wits end. I have tried all sorts of romance. Do I just have to face the fact that I am doomed to be sexually DEPRIVED for the rest of my marriage.
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hOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN MARRIED?<P>Who ends up doing most of the "work"?<P>What does being (acting) romantic mean to you?<P>Have you tried to be romantic for more than a day at a time, before making love?<P>When the outcome becomes predictable, sex can be boring. Sure, sometimes a quickie after church when you are changing cloths (if you have no children) can be nice before lunch. But one should look at extending the forplay from the time you wake in the morning to the next morning and beyond.<BR>just a thought...<BR>
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