I posted here back in August. I got a great deal of feed back and help. My husband of a little over a year, and I were having problems to the point that he was ready to give up on the marriage (we had not even gotten to our first year at that point- it was actually going on during our 1 year anniversary which we did not speak to each other on). Anyway we worked things out and now we are on the outs again. We had a stupid fight on the Monday before New Years (a little over a week ago). We started fighting in the car and it continued on until we got home. He started bring up people from my past that I dated before we got married and saying that this and that happened in my relationship. Things that never happened- he thought that he knew everything. He kept saying my parents told him this and that. I was so frustrated at that point that I called my mom and asked her. I know how much he hates to involve our families, but I was mad and he was mad. He ended up picking up the phone and yelling at me and my mother, saying she was taking my side. She wasn't-but he didn't like the answers she gave him when he asked her a question. Well since then he will not speak to me except to say leave me the F*** alone, I want to be singles, I can't stand you, you make me miserable, you get on my nerves. I try each day to talk and he says he has nothing to say to me. He says he just wants out. This is exactly what he did last time. I do not think he understand that he made a commitment to me in front of our friends, family and God. I am going to speak to a counselor today, but that is what I did last time- but he needs help too. He needs anger management. I can't convince him to go. He said he got his feel for the marriage and now he wants out. No, I know he is not cheating, I know that is what alot of people jump to first thing- but that is not it in our case. He is stressed out financially, and physically (he has diabetes), and works all the time. I know I was wrong to call my mom. I old him I was sorry, I have begged for forgiveness, my mom doesn't hold grudges. He went and told his sister, mom and friends too-so what is the difference.
Please help
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