Got a call from my attorney today. She has taken a position "up north" and won't be practicing here anymore. She will refer my case to another attorney and I will be contacted by her (new attorney) soon. I have had conflicting signs lately and am wondering if this one means that I shouldn't go forward.

I just sent her paperwork to begin proceedings. Other signs have happened:

IC/MC dies... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
W is acting awfully lovey dovey lately <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
Taking a long time for W to get served (doesn't know yet), holidays probably.
Got strong urges to contact OW <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> (resisting)
Cannot stop checking up on W (no trust left)
Can't help but feel another d-day coming <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
Can't get OM/W out of my head <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

Have you considered finding another Marriage Counselor? Have you tried counseling with the Harley's? Maybe try that first...before you move ahead..

Doogie --

You can decide to divorce your W any day you choose. Even after she's been served, you can retract.

You are seeing "conflicting signs" from W and perhaps having some second thoughts.

What do you WANT to do? What is the direction that works best for you? What feels right?

We never have enough information to make any of the really important decisions in life.

If the path ahead is unclear, step onto it slowly and carefully and with much awareness.

Ammon

<small>[ January 09, 2003, 07:02 AM: Message edited by: Ammon ]</small>