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After 10 years of marriage, my spouse decided to turn her back on me and walk away without any prior notice. Since then I became no body in her life. Went from hero to zero. Any thing I do became annoying. Any thing I say is wrong. Any attempt I make to reconcile is perceived as weakness. Our son who once was imortant in her life, became just another person.
I can't understand these things. It hurts so deep. I have treated my wife with absolute respect, love, romance, you name it. Yet, she can never get over her past abusive relationship with her ex. and at the end I became a casualty of her own battle.
I lost trust and confidence. It is hard to admit it. But it is the truth.
So, where do I go from here...?
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your predicament has nothing to do with the obvious fact that your W is a woman. . . .
there are several possible answers. . . one is that she has learned this behavior from prior experiences in her life. . . .
or. . . .
she had a latent tendency towards depression/ chemical imbalances, or delayed mental degradation. . a late blooming mental disorder
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there is something wlse going on that you are unaware of. . . .
but those are the places to look, not whether she is a female or not. . .
wiftty
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