I have been married for almost a year. My husband and I have a 6 month old son together and I have a 10 year old son from a previous relationship. The problem is my husband is in a lot of debt. He does have a job but he can only afford to pay the minimum balances on his credit cards and car payment. He does not help me to pay any of the bills. I support all of us. I told him in the beginning that I was ok with paying everything until he got a job from being previously laid off. I cannot do that any longer. I resent him because of this. I even used all the money we received from our wedding to help him pay his bills. Because of this I don’t think our marriage can survive. I have lost most of my feelings towards and do not know if I can get them back.
I do want to say that he is a great father and a good person. I just don’t know how to work through the money issues.