I just wanted to let you know I have been praying for you a lot the last few days since you told us about your BIL going to talk to your husband tomorrow. I am praying so hard that your husband will hit rock bottom like I did and see what he destroyed and for God to take him and rebuild him and your marriage.

Just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you.

Love in Christ
cajunky

<small>[ February 13, 2003, 05:39 PM: Message edited by: cajunky ]</small>

Cajunky,

Thank you so much, I almost didn't check the boards tonight. A friend emailed me tonight that I was to pray the 23rd Psalm over me & my family until I feel a release daily or even several times a day.

I got a call a little earlier that BIL had to postpone till 11am ET tomorrow (Sat). A good friend (probably WH's only one at this point) will be there as well and has called other friends asking them not to enable WH if he calls or goes to them. Most of his friends said good luck but I don't think it will do any good.

I have arrangements for detox set up IF he chooses to do something about his addictions.

WH has sounded better the last few days, more clear headed. He even asked my opinion on something <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> And ..... he even followed thru on some items. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

God Bless,

D.

Here's an update ....

WH never showed up this morning at BIL's. Said he was at a jobsite and would call when he got back.

BIL & I talked & he said he would give WH till 5pm & then would call if he hadn't heard. When BIL called WH was in denial of problem blamed everyone else for his problems. BIL didn't want to do it over the phone but he leaves town tomorrow for a week. WH was drunk on the phone, slurring his words.

Please continue to keep WH in your prayers.

On a good note, BIL told me that the kids and I ARE a part of thier family and would ALWAYS be welcome at family events. To come to the anual family reunions whether or not WH came. That brought tears to my eyes in a good way. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

D.