Hello Everyone!

I finally have the ability to let go of my second wife. Although I knew she had cheated on me in recent years, I was not aware, until recently, how long ago it started and so. I am finally aware that our marriage never had a chance from the very beginning. There is nothing I could have said or done to save it. At the time when my wife said You have to decide between your sons with your first wife, and your wife and daughter now, it was already too late. And when I chose my second wife and our 3 year old daughter, she had already been unfaithful. Her sister finally broke down and told me to give up. She told me her sister had never been able to be faithful to one man and that her whole life she had always had 2 or 3 men to dally with. She had hoped that my solid character and good heart would be enough to change her sister, but she finally realized that I had suffered enough and came to me to finish filling in the missing pieces of the puzzle that I had been unable to ferret out. She told me my wife had be unfaithful to me before our daughter was 6 months old and had never stopped. She had hoped that I could stop her because she is afraid her sister will catch something like AIDS. But she has seen me suffer enough.

With this information I can finally let go. Because I never had a chance. And I know she is accurate because she filled in the parts of the puzzle I had only guessed at.

So it's time for me to end this marriage, heal and maybe find someone who really does believe in the word, "commitment".

Thanks to you all.