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why do i feel like i have to call him and try to make him understand what he has done to me and my kids. he walked out on me and his 8 kids and he acts like it is no big deal, no pain, no remorse. I feel like i must have been married to a monster. everyone keeps telling me don't call ignore him but i am hurting so bad and this is the man i had by me for 15 years and now is just gone overnight, i want the willpower and have been praying to not pick up the phone. I just can't believe he doesn't even ask about the kids, i supported him for 15 years. he is cold and mean to me and he has never treated me this way I don't know what to do?????????????
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mommax8, I know exactly how you feel.. Although my relation ship has been only 6 years and 1 child. My W seems to feel the exact same was as your H. I've tried all I can think of to bring her back to me but, it doesn't seem to work. I really wish I had some advice for you. I would say don't call though. I couldn't resist calling and all it did was push her away more. I don't think I'll be able to get her back now. My prayers are with you. I do know how you feel..
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