ok, i sit all day thinking about what my H did to me and my 8 children. I am consumed with thinking of ways to make him see, i write emails, call him and tell him how i feel and he just say's whatever and doesn't even ask about the kids. he has been gone out of state that is since March 3 and has spoke to his kids once. He says its because I won't send him money to buy a phone card. He doesn't work, filed for disability and doesn't get paid til the first of the month, but he is smoking away. I think if he can buy cigarettes with the money his mommy gives him he can buy a calling card. I want to just forget about him and stop being consumed about it.