After court Thursday, I read for a little while & then walked stbxwh's favorite route. I was just enjoying the nice day, however bittersweet. I was crossing over the new bridge when spray painted was this phrase "Its all about us!! I recognized the handwriting as OW. I work with hundreds of teenagers & they have never pulled this around here with spray painting on street - professing their feelings.

WOW - I knew when WH went down to AZ to visit his mom, he wasn't considering her mental health. I don't know 100% if OW went, but niece hinted about WH's insensitivity before the visit. After WH's visit MIL had a mental collapse & presently WH's family is all now moving her into an assisted living place. This is just so sad <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> for all of his family.

This is a small town & the phase looked like it was there for a while, I have no idea, weeks to 3-6 months. How do I respond, or do I just keep quite about this. I know what I would like to go back & add "being selfish!" But I won't.

Any suggestions, please.

<small>[ March 16, 2003, 08:57 AM: Message edited by: Vega ]</small>

why not? hehe, even if its NOT her ...it sure would feel good no?

Well, it's possibly illegal. That's not good. And, other than being a way for you to give in to your anger, what would it accomplish.

How did you know her handwriting? What makes you so sure it's her's? And when did two wrongs make a right?

Don't do anything. If you do, and IF it was her writing, then she knows she has you, got you, and you responded to her vindictiveness. Just walk away, leave it be, and say to yourself, stupid stupid. What they did is illegal, and if they get caught good. If not, God knows that they are destroying property.

Thanks for giving me the pro & cons & just letting me have this discussion.

You are right Cinderella &#8211; Two wrongs don&#8217;t make it right.

This is a town less than 100 people, & I have CDs she burned for WH with many examples of handwriting the title&#8217;s of the songs. The script style matches. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Faith &#8211; OW knows just how to set me off. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
I have a meeting nearby Monday, I think I will just take along my camera. x-wh will be driving bringing his mom&#8217;s stuff back, so he will be gone. yeah!

I did have the chance all weekend to buy spray paint & the thought crossed my mind each time I went into Menards & Lowe&#8217;s. I bought primer paint for the floors & walls instead.

Soul &#8211; You are right &#8211; It sure would feel good.
Thanks for understanding.

I made plans with S-16 to lay subflooring for new floor tile. We spent the weekend working together. exWH - never had the time to do this stuff with S. S-16 is so proud of getting this job done & working. He showed his blister&#8217;s off from hammering nails in for two days. I had made arrangements for a carpenter to cut the sub floor & S to do all the nailing, while I was in court, during S&#8217;s spring break.

But, It felt better getting my U.S. tax $ refund back & it not being spent by ex-WH.

The thought will probably still be in my mind when I go for a meeting Monday night, nearby. Yes, I am trying real hard to just shake my head & let it go. Vega