for some help around home from wife while going thru separation/divorce? before the bomb dropped i lost my company. since she left i'm responsible for all house,insurance, pet needs, etc. i've been living off of what few savings i have. she currently is making more $ than me. i can only work about 6hrs. a day due to dog being stuck in house. also have no chance to be alone and do what i need to do while she goes out with friends and stuff. i don't want to divorce but feel it might be best just to finalize these bills. her insurance for the car is due next month along with house related insurance and whatnot. she took everything in the house except for a bed and couch. said she brought the stuff into the house so it's hers. at the same time she wants half of everything else because it's hers as well. or am i better off just shutting up? rambling again i suppose. thanks much for allowing me to do it.

Heck no! you would NOT be wrong to ask or expect!