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Was sad last night and now I wake up and am angered more than ever. After cruel prods via Darth last night when again he calls to talk to son (his excuse to hurt me) and I get emails from him and see that he's included me in the group mailings. Also see in the group is former mistress and the foggy high priestess herself, Ms. MOnkeyho and that the email was sent to Darth via his new mistress, Ms. Family Values.

So I respond and say to not ever put me in the same mailings as them and it is dishonorable and to just end this marriage at least with some dignity and show me honor in this.

So what does he do? RESPONDS THIS MORNING BY SENDING AN EMAIL WITH ATTACHMENT A PHOTO OF HE AND HIS NEW MISTRESS TOGETHER. At least he's broken the chain of blondes he prefers. She may be 25, and must admit she is pretty, but she looks older. Much older. Guess alot of hard livin' makes tha happen. He then goes on to say that he drove by home and saw my suv was back and then said that my son's light was off by nine. He is SNOOPING AND VIOLATING MY PRIVACY AGAIN.

So with court being around the corner, I forward the lovely "couple" photo to the attorneys along with his email.

I have had it. He has broken every bit of my heart over these last 3 years. I am now pondering what is going through someone's head to want to do such a cruel thing? So this saturday is my birthday and my son will be gone. And I have this awful image in my head now. It is horrible and cruel.

Just need prayers and so with son. Please pray for Darth as he needs it and is now become a person so cruel and inhuman that it scares me.

BTW, I am getting attorneys to enact a tpo or restraining order so that he is not allowed to spy on me anymore. It is sick. He's lost control of me. I am not there anymore. HE cannot do this. No more controlling. No more. Enough. I am done with this. I am scared of him and also sickened at who he has become.

I don't know what the proper adjective is to describe someone who is devastatingly hurt and angry at same time.

thoughts? Any ideas? This has hit all new level of low.

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I haven't looked at the forum for a month or so now.

But This AM, for some reason, I thought, "I wonder if notpeachy is still posting?

Go to the forum... right up at the top! whoa.

Peachy, today you are in my thoughts & prayers.
May God bless you and your family.


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Many hugs too you. I know the cruel behaviour is so hard. I will write more later when Ihave more time...your in my thoughts and prayers today...

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Only you can change your mood. So do it.
Think of the positives in your life and reinforce those (stop reinforcing the negative thoughts).
God bless you and keep strong throughout this ordeal.
Happy Birthday to you in advance for Saturday. I hope you plan something special, just for you.
Enjoy!

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Ok Peachy - Now you must take the highroad - I know that is very hard - but he is doing this mean crap because he is getting a reaction from you - he is like a child - I always tell my kids they make fun of you because it bothers you - if you just ignored them they would go away....Do not even tell this man that you are hurt - he is so way past any kind of reasoning... You need to go out on your birthday - Happy Birthday by the way - Find yourself a nice, gorgeous man - and have a good time... You do not need this Darth man - and by the way I am thinking he is more like Satan himself - he deserves a good slap up the side of the head - But stop all contact with him - Do not worry yourself over him and whoever actually you should probably start feeling sorry for all of these woman or actually maybe you should start thanking them for having him now - so you cannot.... You I am sure can do and will do - 100 times better in the future.... [Smile] Stay strong - and detach.... Mimi

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do you know how to block specific e-mail addresses? You don't have to endure his harrassment any more. Let him work to arrange visitation with your lawyer.

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I am so sorry you are having to go through this and that stupid jerk insists on hurting you. I suggest that you place an email block against any incoming emails from that address. I am fortunate that my stbxh is out of state and I don't have to look at him or see him. I can only imagine how it would be with them right under your nose and rubbing it in. Just remember as you told me ...This is his loss and he will pay for it someday. You are strong, you can make it through this. If he was truly happy he wouldn't find it necessary to rub it in your face. Any think about it if I was the OW I would be pretty mad of my man was sending pictures to his stbxw. She is as pathetic as he is. You take care of yourself and your son. Many hugs.........

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Thanks buddies...Maw, mom of 8, newly, k and a, nuffin.

I have a sinus infection on top of all of this and he did it again this afternoon via blocked cell calls.

I am posting again but with new title. I am filing restraining order charges.


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