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hi well i have been married almost a year and for the last 6 months i haven't had sex with my husband. we went to the gyno to see if it was physical but its not its mental the only problem is my husband thinks that therapy only causes problems he is controlling and insecure so i don't know what to do i don't know it is tearing me apart inside because i know i am hurting him by turning him away all the time i love him but sometimes i don't think i am happy i am so scared and lost and confused i need help this is tearing me up because i feel helpless and confused sometimes i think i want a divorce but then other times i just think that its the easy way out i don't know i just wish i had someone tell me that its going to be all right and i believe it if anyone has gone through what i just babbled out please if you could let me know about it maybe it will help
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So... <ahem> to clarify...
- You haven't had sex for half of your married life.
- It's not physical.
- It's mental.
If it was physical, would you take action to correct it?
<waits for a blinding flash of the obvious>
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