After 20 years of marriage my husband told me he didn't know if he loved me anymore and moved to a run down cabin in the woods.He works 2 jobs an is under a lot of stress.He lost his Father in april,he almost died from a bleeding ulcer in October and we were in a wreck in November.We have a 18 year old son and he says that are son doesn't need him anymore.He says that it seems like we have nothing to show for all the years he has worked.He says he wants to be part of the family but doesn't know if he's ever going to come back home.He is paying all the bills and really concerned about us getting are bills in order he says that this would really help.He calls everyday,he stops by on his way to work,he eats.He is talking more to me now than he ever has.He has talked about his work.He tells me that he is thinking.I continue to tell him I love him and he only says I know.When he leaves he kisses me and always hugs me.He lets me know where he's at and what he's doing.He has started calling me Baby which is a pet name.He also has only told a few people that he has left.Is there hope for us?Has anyone else been in the same situation?Ilove him and I know that he loves me but how do you make a person realize what is in front of their face?

yes there is hope!!!if you can get in counceling go! ask him to join in just to help you. it worked for me. <BR>i have a very similar situation, but i found out later that he had an affair several months earlier, but it was all over. my husband also comes by every day and talked to me more than ever. he even stays here more than he stays at his place.i didn't panic and loved him. things are looking up. he hasn't moved back yet but he is spending more time with me than ever. please read HIs needs her needs it will save your marriage. i will keep you in my prayers. sounds like something is troubling him - keep talking and he will probably open up.