2 months ago my wife turned my life and family upsidedown, she filed r/o, got me kicked out of house, unable to see kids, ( I was stay at home dad for 9 years and also worked, my wife worked and made much more money, I was the one involved with kids schools/activities ) I have moved 4 times ( motel,friend,apartment, now renting a small farm ) thought I had lost everything, nearly lost job (twice), nearly went to Jail.
Can not see kids or talk to them when I want, or have to get special permission to go to schools, (wife doesn't want me to be able to just drop in) had to get rid of my dog. Basically my wife has been playing GOD with me, trying to ruin me and my relationship with kids.
But she is failing............................
I live on 2 acres, have new puppy, love living in the country, kids love it (when I get to have them) gonna get farm animals.
But still.......what I want is to be able to have and see my kids on regular basis, don't really care what my wife does, but I know the best thing is to have my family together.
What is hard is how my wife has been painting me as a abusive person (r/o), keeping me away from schools where I am able to demonstrate what a great parent I am, I have lost many rights, wife has lost none.
One of the hardest things is finding out wife has other man and has had him for some time.
And that he is taking my place with my family, although she denies this.
example ( last month I took my kids to dinner/magic show, magician had us sign playing card, put it in deck, throw on ceiling and it stuck up there with me and my kids names on it, find out from daughter 1 week later that she has another card up there with her name on it, because following week after our trip there, wife,new guy, and kids went to same restraunt, they all signed the playing card, and guess what,they now have a card on the ceiling too....) How should a person feel about that?

I used to sign in as Robert, if you hadn't already figured that out.

Comments in what forum should I be posting......
divorcing/divorced,,,,just found out,,,,plan a/plan b..................

I also spoke with steve harley, he mentioned possbility of giver/taker snap....I understand this principle, has anyone else had experiance with someone or something like this.

Thanks for all the advice
I am a better person, down a better and more rightous path, only thing missing is my family.