After 1.5 years and 4 months of marriage my wife told me the friday before last when I walked in from work thsat she doesn't love me any more and that I had to move out.

At first she was telling me she needed toime to think. i didn't react right and pushed her then 3 days later the divorce was definate.

She has saidf the reason she does not love me is because i told her after we maried that I had slept with prostitutes - 7 years before I met her and she feelsshe cant trust me anymore.

It's been hard since out november wedding as she has had two miscariages with me - bearing in mind when she met me she had a daughter from a revious relationship and had a still bormn about 8 years ago, who's grave she visits onve per year.

The first week of the split were hard an dshe withdrew completely - blanking me, not looking at me etc.. when I saw her.

since then i have backed off and npo longer mention us - trying to get her barriers down. All I do is talk happy talk and we have just started talk agian. She was supposed to call me last night but didn't get the time too because of guests. She then mailed me today saying she'd call tonight...

She also had a bit of a dig at me about a phone of OUR's (as she said it) what I have.

Trying to work out if I can get her back to conflict and obviously to intimacy again but at the moment just trying to keep oit friedly.

The reason this all came about - it apears (thought she ever told me) she had been getting more and more unhappy recently. She visit a counceler and was told to talk to me about my past - she did and kicked me out.

I cant help but feel there is more too it than just my past....Perhaps the miscarriages are affecting her more than I think..

Any advice would be greatly apreciated. How can she be so definate?.

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