Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 217
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 217 |
Too move on from the pain that your ex caused you?
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 2,394
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 2,394 |
I don't think it's possible to completely move on from the pain we've experienced from our exes. After all, we also need to remember it, so that we can use it to our advantage, and learn from it. Even if all we've learned is what NOT to put up with. That's pretty good... because now we have boundaries.
Of course, I'm still going through the pain. But I also think it will work like grieving the death of a loved one. We'll have some bad days, and then some good days. Eventually, the good days far outnumber the bad.
What's helping me to work through the pain, is being on anti depressant medication again, and the biggie, NO CONTACT with my stbxH.
Karen
|
|
|
Moderated by Ariel, BerlinMB, Denali, Fordude, IrishGreen, MBeliever, MBsurvivor, MBSync, McLovin, Mizar, PhoenixMB, Toujours
|
0 members (),
232
guests, and
22
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,659
Posts2,323,613
Members72,372
| |
Most Online9,682
May 13th, 2026
|
|
|
|
|
|
