have to meet wife tomorrow to chat about dog custody schedule. thought of giving her my love busters book. should i leave well enough alone or at least offer it? don't want to push things. we still have 9 1/2 months before we can file for the big D. i'm hoping and praying everyday that we can meet with a joint counselor sometime. i just don't want to drive her away. she said if she wanted to try reconciliation she would let me know. this sure is'nt easy. everyday another struggle. thanks people