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My husband was married for 9 years and had 2 children. We have been married for 4 years now. His ex had affairs and it is ruining our marraige. He thinks every woman cheats and it'a only a matter of time that I will too. I have never thought of being with anyone else and can't get that through his head. The other night he said it would just be easier to be alone because he hates feeling the way he does. He said he's not happy and knows it's all him and it has nothing to do with me. I rarely go out with my girlfriends, when we do something it's always together. I don't know if he'll ever get over it. I think he needs help.
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bummed,<P>Your H unhappiness may have been set off by his first wife's<BR>unfaithfulness but, our happiness doen't come from other people. His self esteem is low because he feels unlovable or not good enough. Until he gets the inside of him fixed he will not be happy no matter who he is with. I tried many things to fix myself before I turned to the only when who can fix our insides...God.Happiness doesn't come from what others think about us or from what we accomplish or from pleasing others...true happiness comes from God.I do hope this helps. I will pray for you both.<BR>gentle
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