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Well, after a month or so of Plan B my H called me last night and asked me what he could do to keep us from divorcing.
Where do I begin? Please help me think this through.
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Aly Just a quick note before I leave...there isn't usually a lot of traffic on the boards over the weekend, so you may not get many responses. I also suggest posting your question in the "Plan A/Plan B" and "In Recovery" forums for some answers from those groups. They've been there, done that and that might provide some additional insight. That's wonderful news; many, many here would love to be in your shoes right now <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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Thanks, I just did. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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Seek a counseling meeting with the Harleys. That way you get a plan to follow, and a coach, for each of you. . ..
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Ask him to call Dr. harley on his own and make an appointment, for him to make a plan that is acceptable for you..and ask him to read a few of the books here..
And you call and make your own appointment w/ Dr. Harley..and let them help you set up a plan to work with..
Something else you could do is check out Familylife.com and see if they have a marriage seminar the two of you can attend together..
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Rose,
About 4 months ago I found this site. I ordered LB and Compat. books. It came with His/Her.
I listened, and read like crazy. He listened, and read a few pages. I wanted to do the 3 weeks from His/Her but he just wanted to know where we were going and what kind of vacation it would involve. He didn't get it.
He seems to know he doesn't get it but doesn't know what to do about it. I hope that made sence.
The "get real" as Dr. Phil would say.
It's like a alcoholic in denile.
He thinks he's a "great guy."
This is why I'm here. This is why I found this sight.
It's hard to believe someone could be so unreasonable but it's true.
I think you are right. I need to call.
Thanks,
Aly
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