I am having a very difficult time right now. I am in love with another man, but I made the decision to stay with my spouse and work it out. I made the decision for many reasons--I felt that he deserved a chance; once I confessed to him about this other man, he has been really trying so hard to prov to me that he still loves me very much, and I felt that it was best for the children. I have been reading alot of the information provided by marriagebuilders.com, and I have to say it has helped me to understand alot of things. But I am having a difficult time with our sexual relationship. I did not have sex with this other man. I am very much in love with him, but we did not go to that point due to morals. But I have no desire at all to have sex with my spouse and I am worried that he well get tired of this and become upset with me. He says that he understands, but I am really stressed over the issue because I feel like he doesn't deserve this. I don't know what else to do. I'm just not in love with him as I once was a long time ago, but I feel too comfortable to leave because we have been together a long time. Please advise.

Well, all I can suggest to you is that you both go to counseling.