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Well, I am still here. I wish I knew how to keep keep my mind off her and on my own worries. I know I need to keep away for awhile, but I just can't say no to her. She will call and need something and i jump at any chance I get. If I see a chance to maybe take her to lunch, I am there. I am afraid to make her mad, but by doing that I am showing her she still has control of me. Its a circle I can't get out of.
Thank you for you support.
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"I am afraid to make her mad, but by doing that I am showing her she still has control of me. Its a circle I can't get out of."
CD- You could get out of it if you really wanted to. You seem to have a pretty good grasp of your emotions so perhaps you should spend more time reflecting on why it is that you're so afraid of upsetting her.
You know that you're worthy of having a faithful and committed wife right? And that, further, there are plenty of good women out there? My guess is that if you get a handle on this and become more assertive in what it is that you want, you're X will get off the fence. Good luck to you...
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